
The long awaited ending of this story is here! I apologize for the wait, but above all I pray that my story will help, encourage and push you to never give up on your dreams.
Let's continue from where we left off…
Was There Any Hope Of Providing For My Family?
So, here I was baffled that our bank was foreclosing on our house and I had no job to speak of to pay our bills. As you recall, I lost my job in October of 2009. Up to the time when the bank told us they were going to foreclose on our home, I was earning income by doing computer repair and trying to setup a computer business.
I wasn't bringing in much, and my wife approached me one day and asked if I should apply for unemployment benefits. I didn't want to!
Unfortunately, money was tight, so I reluctantly decided to apply for it online.
This was around late January 2010. The unemployment checks started coming about two weeks later and did provide a little relief financially. This gave me a little space to focus on getting more work and starting my business to better provide for my family.
The "System" Bites Back – Hard!
You have probably heard of the movie "The Matrix". I'm sure you understood the plot – about being caught up in the "System" and realizing that the world you are in isn't "reality" but all a part of the Matrix.
Well, we place ourselves in the "System" when we seek benefits from the "State" (Read government) such as unemployment, welfare, etc. Much similar to the Matrix. Stay with me here…
When I applied for unemployment, here in Michigan, the UIA (Unemployment Insurance Agency) will contact your previous employer to see if you qualify for receiving unemployment benefits. When I applied in January 2010 I was approved to receive benefits.
"So what is the problem?" you might ask. Well, in April of 2010, I received some correspondence from the UIA stating that my previous employer was appealing the UIA's determination for benefits.
The gist of this process is that you can appeal twice to the UIA in writing to see if the UIA will repeal the initial determination. The UIA didn't, they replied to my previous employer that I was still qualified to receive benefits.
My previous employer persisted. This meant that I had to go before an Administrative Judge (who works for the "State" of Michigan) to plead my case to keep receiving benefits. I did some research on how to proceed and found out that I should be represented by a lawyer or someone selected by the State for counsel.
Being that I was already on unemployment (read poor house) I now had to pay an attorney to go to bat for me at this hearing so I can "keep" my benefits. What a joke! At any rate, I had to put my case together and be ready for the hearing.
The day of the hearing comes, I go before the Administrative Judge along with my previous employer to plead my case. It took about an hour of deliberation and then we left. The judge does not give an answer at the hearing. What they do is review what was said, look at evidence and then determine an action.
I received my letter from the Administrative judge a week later. Although, not a surprise, the judge overturned the UIA's original determination and I no longer was qualified for benefits. Not only that, I had to pay every cent of it back! Ha, ha!
That came out to over $9,000 dollars!!!
Whoa! How in the world was I going to pay that – when I was living off of what they just took away?
I contacted the attorney who I counseled with and he told me to send in a waiver of restitution to see if they will forgive the money owed. I ended up having to call the UIA, have them send me the form to fill out, filled it out and sent it in.
Two weeks or so later I get a letter from them stating that I didn't qualify for the forgiveness of the money owed. How nice of them!
They proceeded to send me "payment coupons" to pay for the over-payments made to me.
Facebook Leads To A Way Out – And Just In Time!
We are now somewhere in the vicinity of August 2010. I remember browsing on Facebook and I came across a lady by the name of Sandi Krakowski. Yes, the one with the pink hair! She was promoting a seminar in Indianapolis to bring a real change to your business and becoming successful doing it.
I believe I signed up for her 7-day WordPress video series. As a good marketer, she would send out follow-up messages to me and I was gulping them up. I kept on going back to her sales page for two weeks wanting to go to the seminar – but I just couldn't afford it.
One day I saw a post on Facebook, and she asked a question that if I could answer in four sentences or less what I would do if I had the chance to go to her seminar in Indy. She would then pick someone who answered and give them a gift.
Right at that moment, I said "This is my chance, fill it out!". So, I refreshed the Facebook page and I noticed that no one had answered yet. I jumped on it like hot on fries and gave her a short but specific answer and then I went about my day.
I got on her call that night and near the end of it she said that she had selected a winner from those who had replied to her post, and the winner is….
Patrick Whitson!
At that point I was jumping out of my skin (figuratively) and praising God that I won a ticket to Sandi's seminar that was coming up.
In the midst of all the bad, ugly things that were going on in my life, here was a chance to go get some education on how I can be successful in business from someone who has done it in the past and is doing it now.
That was the launching of my website marketing and design business.
Dreams Can Come True – I'm Living Proof They Can.
All along through the mess, the financial hardship and losing my home – one thing I always continued to pursue was starting my own business.
Yes, like many, I wasn't exactly sure "what" I was going to do or how – but I did manage to make enough money from MY business to pay for the trip down to Indy and for the hotel stay there.
We had a "meet and greet" the Friday night before the first day of the seminar and I met some really great people – who were just like me. Wanting to make a better life, NOT just for themselves, but to help others. Some to help little babies, start ministries, or use their gifts to build up and lift up others.
Many of you (you know who you are) I have already worked with, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for you wanting to use me to serve your business needs. I have met and worked with many more who were not even at Sandi's event – just through the relationships that came out of that group on that one weekend in Indianapolis, Indiana.
My business is moving forward and I am living my dream. Please don't misunderstand me though, I'm not where I want to be – yet!
But I am working on putting systems in place that will allow me the health, time and freedom to spend less time working in my business and more working on my family.
It's an adventure my friends and it happens one step at a time.
Do you have a dream to start your own business? Tell us your story and how starting your own business has impacted your life by leaving a comment below. I look forward to reading them.
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Patrick Whitson has spent more than twenty years in the computer field programming and designing web sites for such companies as J. Walter Thompson, Ford, MSX Intl., White Castle, Delphi and many small to mid-sized businesses. Moving out of corporate America, he decided to work specifically with local businesses to help them market online using their own website. He has worked with many small businesses and is seeing them grow and bring in more customers with Lapeer Website Design.




Patrick Whitson has spent more than twenty years in the computer field programming and designing web sites for such companies as J. Walter Thompson, Ford, MSX Intl., White Castle, Delphi and many small to mid-sized businesses. Moving out of corporate America, he decided to work specifically with local businesses to help them market online using their own website. He has worked with many small businesses and is seeing them grow and bring in more customers with Lapeer Website Design.
Patrick Whitson has spent more than twenty years in the computer field programming and designing web sites for such companies as J. Walter Thompson, Ford, MSX Intl., White Castle, Delphi and many small to mid-sized businesses. Moving out of corporate America, he decided to work specifically with local businesses to help them market online using their own website. He has worked with many small businesses and is seeing them grow and bring in more customers with Lapeer Website Design.







